Saul Lee Gitomer, 87, of Overland Park, Kansas, passed away peacefully on Nov. 16, surrounded by loved ones.
A memorial service was held at Village Shalom on Nov. 19, followed by a graveside service on Nov. 21 at his family's cemetery in Millville, New Jersey.
Saul was born on Oct. 9, 1938, in Atlantic City, New Jersey, to Betty and Aaron Gitomer, of blessed memory. Affectionately known as “Saulee” in his youth and later as “Dappy” by his grandchildren, Saul enriched the lives of those around him with his warmth and storytelling.
In 1969, Saul relocated with his family — Audrey, Lynn, Kenan and Daniel — from New Jersey to Kansas for a career opportunity in the pharmaceutical industry. His storied career as a research statistician and consultant spanned over 35 years, leaving a meaningful impact. His tenure at Marion Laboratories sparked a lifelong passion for international travel, which led him to explore 35 countries — a journey he chronicled in his memoir, “The Luckiest Man Alive,” published in 2023. He was so proud of this book that he shared it with everyone he met.
Saul will be lovingly remembered as a devoted father, grandfather and great-grandfather, always bringing joy with his engaging stories, family gatherings at the Jersey Shore and his gentle presence. Whether basking in the sun, fishing, traveling, cycling or savoring good food, Saul’s zest for life was contagious. His pride in his family was boundless; he often described himself as the wealthiest man alive because of them. His fondest memories included time spent with family on the beaches of Brigantine, New Jersey.
An accomplished cyclist, Saul rode thousands of miles across the U.S., raising funds for multiple sclerosis and AIDS while forming enduring friendships. Locally, he dedicated time volunteering at Restart, cooking for their homeless shelter; Jewish Family Services; and the Ronald McDonald House, securing and preparing food with great compassion.
As a lifelong member of The Temple, Congregation B’nai Jehudah, Saul cherished chanting his bar mitzvah Torah portion, Bereshit, annually on Simchat Torah. His dedication to Judaism and its rituals remained unwavering. Recently, he found weekly joy in singing the Kiddush at Friday night services at Village Shalom.
Saul's legacy continues through Audrey Hollander and his children, Lynn Gitomer and her husband, Dan Weiner; Ken Gitomer and his wife, Kathy; and Danny Gitomer. He is also survived by his grandchildren, Jesse, Allie, Connor and Sussa; and great-grandchildren Ella, Cameron, Emma and Savannah.
Memorial donations may be made to the Village Shalom Employee Appreciation Fund; Congregation B’nai Jehudah Rabbi Rothstein Discretionary Fund; and The Jewish Community Center of Greater Kansas City.
The family extends deep gratitude to the caring teams at Village Shalom and Monarch, especially to Melissa Jacob and Val Somova, for their compassionate care over the past three years.
Saul, Dad, Dappy, will be deeply missed and fondly remembered. Online condolences for the family may be left at louismemorialchapel.com.