It’s no secret that hunger among members of the Jewish community is on the rise. The newest program in the area set to help tackle this problem, and the first to provide already prepared kosher food to an individual’s home, is Kosher Meals on Wheels. It is being organized under the auspices of the Torah Learning Center and should be up and running sometime in January.

“There’s a serious problem of hunger among our seniors. Our target population is those who can’t get out to get the food. They are also unable to prepare their meals,” explained Susie Klinock, who is the overall chair of the new program.

This is the second major hunger program initiated in the last few months in the Jewish community. Jewish Family Services started the JFS Food Pantry in October. Kosher Meals on Wheels is partnering with JFS to help discover who is in need of this service and JFS is helping train volunteers. Kosher Meals on Wheels is, however, a separate program from any other Jewish food program in the area and should not be confused with the Simcha Box program that has provided food stuff to members of the Jewish community for several years.

The food delivery program is intended for people who are unable to purchase or prepare their own meals. Clients must live in Jackson, Wyandotte or Johnson counties.

Volunteer Esther Friedman said JFS has provided Kosher Meals on Wheels with an initial list of 10 people who are set to be the program’s first clients. Once the glitches are ironed out of the program, organizers hope to quickly expand the client list to 25.

“JFS has told us that they think they have about 35 people who will want this,” Friedman said. “We’ve also been getting calls from people wanting to know how the program works as the word has spread about this program.”

The program is for any Jewish person, whether they keep kosher or not. While most people who receive this service will remain steady clients, in the near future Friedman hopes to assist individuals who may need short-term help, such as those recently released from the hospital.

“Nationally they tell me that’s going to account for between 30 and 40 percent of our clientele,” Klinock said.

How it works

Klinock explained Kosher Meals on Wheels’ first goal is to start delivering four meals at a time to each client on a weekly basis. The plan is for one meant to be a Shabbat meal and consist of an entrée, such as baked chicken, a vegetable and another side like kugel. A nutritionist is helping to determine what the other three meals are and make sure they are healthy and well-balanced.

The meals will be frozen.

“That’s a trend happening all over the country because it’s a lot less complicated. There are very strict rules we have to follow,” Klinock said.

All food will be cooked in the kosher kitchens at TLC, which currently has the capacity to provide meat and pareve meals. In the future they hope to add a small milk kitchen to the facility.

The delivery drives will also visit with the clients.

“A big part of our program that sets us apart is that there are so many people who are lonely. Some of them have virtually no contact with people outside the home, much less with the Jewish community. So we will provide a friendly chat,” Klinock said.

Friedman said she and her husband, TLC Rabbi Benzion Friedman, already visit many seniors who are homebound.

“They are not necessarily financially needy but lonely. We see a tremendous need for this, whether it be for those who are financially at need or just homebound. They are very lonely, can’t get out and having visitation once a week makes a world of difference,” Friedman said.

Klinock added, “It’s really pretty heartbreaking to see these people so isolated.”

Those who can afford to pay for the meals will be asked to make “voluntary” contributions based on a sliding scale.

“But we are very aware that many meals, if not most, will have to be subsidized,” said Klinock, who noted the program’s first 10 clients cannot afford to pay for the service.

Citywide effort

Klinock believes that for this program to be successful, it has to be a citywide program.

“Everybody, every synagogue, every Jewish organization in town has to be involved,” Klinock said.

Committee members are still reaching out to congregations and organizations, but so far all those contacted have reacted positively to the news. Those who have already agreed to support the project in some way, in addition to JFS, include the Vaad HaKashruth of Greater Kansas City, Mitzvah Garden, Hyman Brand Hebrew Academy and Congregations Beth Torah and Ohev Sholom.

“Rabbi Mark Levin has committed Congregation Beth Torah to sponsor the food for this program for the entire month of January,” Klinock said. “Rabbi Scott White of Congregation Ohev Sholom has proposed that volunteers from his congregation will cook one day a month as well as supply the food to be cooked that day.”

Klinock hopes other agencies and congregations will step forward and sponsor other months in a similar fashion.

No federal money is available for this program. All that money is directed to the Johnson County Meals on Wheels program. So volunteers have been searching for funding for the past several months.

“We just got word that we are getting the largest grant we applied for,” Klinock said. “Money has been coming in, but not fast enough.”

They are looking for funds from both within and outside of the Jewish community. In fact they have already received a grant from a Walmart foundation.

“We really need somebody who knows what they are doing as far as searching for grants,” Klinock said. “I feel so gratified when someone calls when they find something that may help us.”

As it gets up and running and continues to grow, Klinock said the program needs such things as stand mixers, commercial refrigerators and freezers. It also needs volunteers. People are needed to cook, clean, deliver meals and take on leadership roles.

“We have enough volunteers to take care of 10 people, but we really want to expand this very quickly and for that we will need more volunteers,” Friedman explained.

Klinock said that volunteer positions are very flexible.

“We’d love to have caterers come and bring in their whole crew. Or if someone wants to volunteer as often as once a week or can only swing it once a year, we welcome that also,” she said.

Ginsberg said the volunteers will be screened by Kosher Meals on Wheels and trained by JFS.

“Our volunteers will be trained to be companionable, to visit and give some comfort,” Klinock said.

The amount of time each volunteer spends with a client will vary, Friedman explained.

“Some people will want to talk and love having guests. Some just want you there for five or 10 minutes,” she explained.

Since the drivers will be 100 percent volunteer, Klinock said, “I’m telling most people to plan on 15 or 20 minutes per home on average.”

Their greatest fear so far is that they will have more clients than they can serve.

“We have a wait list already. We hope to serve 50 as soon as money allows,” Klinock said.

“Based on what we’ve heard from other kosher meals on wheels programs with populations that compare to ours, we are anticipating the need will be from 150 to 200 people. That’s a lot of meals, G-d willing,” Klinock said.

To volunteer call 913-735-3663 (food), or email .

As we’ve done for more years than we can remember, The Chronicle will shower the first Jewish baby of 2013 with prizes. Information about our annual contest, and the 2013 prize package, appears on pages 18 and 19 of The Jewish Chronicle newspaper.

Last year’s first Jewish baby, Gabriel Yehudah Goodbinder, was born on Jan. 2. Coincidentally his mother, Darcy Kroll Goodbinder, was the community’s first Jewish baby in 1980.

Gabriel weighed 6 pounds, 3.4 ounces and was 18 inches long at birth. At 11 months old, Gabriel weighs 18 pounds and is 29 inches tall.

Gabriel’s mother said last year’s first Jewish baby is getting close to walking.

“He pushes his walker around and holds onto furniture,” she said.

“It’s been an amazing journey and he is a wonderful, wonderful child. He is so happy. He loves to be out in public and be around people and we’re very blessed with what he’s turned into,” said Goodbinder, who added that Gabriel will be a big brother in May.

The Goodbinders are hoping to spread some of their good fortune with others when they celebrate Gabriel’s first birthday. The party will be held at the JFS Food Pantry. Guests will be asked to bring items to donate to the pantry to the party.

The Chronicle’s First Jewish Baby contest is limited to residents of the five-county greater Kansas City area (Jackson, Clay and Platte in Missouri and Johnson and Wyandotte in Kansas), and the birth must take place in greater Kansas City.

Parents should call Chronicle Editor Barbara Bayer, 913-951-8425, or contact her via email at as soon as possible after th child is born. The parent or parents must agree to be interviewed and photographed along with the baby for a story in the newspaper to be eligible to be awarded prizes.

From the 1930s to the present, American filmmakers’ varied depictions of Adolf Hitler, the Nazis and the genocide of European Jewry have always involved a coming together of art, commerce, politics and history. In turn, these representations have exerted a profound influence on popular culture as well as public perception of and opinion about these events.

To mark its 20th anniversary year, The Midwest Center for Holocaust Education (MCHE) will offer a public film series one Tuesday evening each month from Jan. 15 through June 11. The six-film series will showcase full-length American-made narrative films related to the Holocaust that have been nominated for or have won an Academy Award. Collectively, the films illustrate how depiction of the Holocaust in American cinema has changed over five decades as America’s own relationship with this history has evolved.

The series will begin on Jan. 15, with the documentary film “Imaginary Witness: Hollywood and the Holocaust.” Released in 2007, directed by Daniel Anker and narrated by Gene Hackman, it examines the treatment of the Holocaust in Hollywood films over a period of 60 years. It looks at the impact of those films on public perception and thinking, as well as the impact of public perception and thinking on Hollywood filmmakers. It will provide both context and background for the five narrative films that follow it, dating from 1942 through 1989.

Each film will be preceded by an introduction at 7 p.m., facilitated by Fran Sternberg, Ph.D., MCHE’s director of university programs and adult education, and members of the Holocaust Education Academic Roundtable (HEART), MCHE’s consortium of university educators. The comments will provide insight into how to view these films for their artistic and historical value. All films in the series will be shown in the White Theatre on the Jewish Community Campus, except in February, when the film will be shown in the Campus Social Hall.

Funding for “Hollywood and the Holocaust” is generously provided, in part, by grants from the Earl J. and Leona K. Tranin Special Fund and the White Theatre Grantor Fund of the Jewish Community Foundation of Greater Kansas City.

Tickets are available at $10 per individual film or $50 for a series pass. Sponsorship opportunities are also available for individual films and for the entire series. For more information, visit www.mchekc.org/filmseries or call 913-327-8194.

Schedule of featured films

The films will be shown at 7 p.m. at the Jewish Community Campus on the following Tuesday evenings:

Jan. 15 — “Imaginary Witness: Hollywood and the Holocaust” (2007, 92 minutes, White Theatre): Directed by Daniel Anker and narrated by Gene Hackman, this documentary film examines the treatment of the Holocaust in Hollywood films over a period of 60 years. It looks at the impact of those films on public perception and thinking, as well as the impact of public perception and thinking on Hollywood filmmakers.

Feb. 12 — “To Be or Not to Be” (1942, 99 minutes, Social Hall): Directed by Ernst Lubitsch and starring Carole Lombard, Jack Benny and Robert Stack, this is a comedy about a troupe of actors in German-occupied Warsaw, who use their abilities at disguise and acting to fool the occupying troops. In 1983, Mel Brooks remade the film, featuring himself and Anne Bancroft in the Benny and Lombard roles.

March 12 — “Gentleman’s Agreement” (1947, 118 minutes, White Theatre): Directed by Elia Kazan and based on Laura Z. Hobson’s 1947 novel of the same name, it features Gregory Peck as Schuyler Green, a journalist who goes undercover as a Jew to expose anti-Semitism and John Garfield as Dave Goldman, his childhood friend, newly returned from fighting in World War II and trying to find a house for his family in New York. It also starred Celeste Holm and Dorothy McGuire.

April 23 — “The Pawnbroker” (1965, 116 minutes, White Theatre): Sol Nazerman (Rod Steiger) is a Holocaust survivor living in the Bronx who has lost all faith in his fellow man and who realizes the tragedy of his actions only when it is too late. Directed by Sidney Lumet and based on the novel by Edward Lewis Wallant, this is the first American film to deal with the Holocaust from the point of view of a survivor.

May 21 — “The Man in the Glass Booth” (1975, 117 minutes, White Theatre): Arthur Goldman (Maximillian Schell) is a rich Jewish industrialist living in luxury in Manhattan. He banters with his assistant Charlie (Lawrence Pressman), shocking him with his outrageous and irreverent views about Jewish life. Then, one day, Israeli secret agents burst in and arrest Goldman for being a Nazi war criminal. Taken to Israel for trial, he forces his accusers to face not only his own presumed guilt, but also their own. Directed by Arthur Hiller, the film is based on a screenplay adapted from Robert Shaw’s 1967 novel and the 1968 play of the same name. 

June 11 — “Enemies: A Love Story” (1989, 119 minutes, White Theatre): In 1949 New York, Herman Broder (Ron Silver), a Polish Jew who survived the Holocaust in hiding and who now works as a ghostwriter for a rabbi (Alan King), finds himself involved with three women: his current wife, the Polish non-Jew who hid him during the war; another survivor (Lena Olin), who is married; and his first wife from Poland (Anjelica Huston), who he thought was killed in the Holocaust along with their children, but who suddenly reappears. Directed by Paul Mazursky and based on the novel by Isaac Bashevis Singer, this film focuses on a group of Holocaust survivors, who question religion and a God who could let the Holocaust occur.

Tickets are available for purchase for individual films and for the entire series. Sponsorship opportunities are also available for individual films and for the entire series. For more information, visit www.mchekc.org/filmseries or call 913-327-8194.

PBS will air “Curtain Upon Broadway Musicals: A Jewish Legacy,” from “THIRTEEN’s Great Performances” on Jan. 1. Locally it will be shown on KCPT three times, at 8:30 p.m. Tuesday, Jan. 1, at 1:30 a.m. Wednesday, Jan. 2, and 2 a.m. Monday, Jan. 7. It will also air on KCPT 2 at 10:30 p.m. Saturday, Jan. 12; check with your cable company for channel availability.

This new 90-minute documentary is by Michael Kantor, creator of the Emmy-winning series, “Broadway: The American Musical,” airs on “Great Performances.” “Great Performances” is a production of THIRTEEN for WNET, one of America’s most prolific and respected public media providers. For 50 years, THIRTEEN has been making the most of the rich resources and passionate people of New York and the world, reaching millions of people with on-air and online programming that celebrates arts and culture, offers insightful commentary on the news of the day, explores the worlds of science and nature, and invites students of all ages to have fun while learning.

“Broadway Musicals: A Jewish Legacy” — narrated by Joel Grey —- explores the unique role of Jewish composers and lyricists in the creation of the modern American musical. Featuring interviews and conversations with some of the greatest composers and writers of the Broadway stage, “Broadway Musicals: A Jewish Legacy” showcases the work of some of the nation’s pre-eminent creators of musical theater including Irving Berlin, Jerome Kern, George and Ira Gershwin, Lorenz Hart, Richard Rodgers, Oscar Hammerstein II, Kurt Weill, Sheldon Harnick, Jerry Bock, Leonard Bernstein, Stephen Sondheim, Stephen Schwartz, Jule Styne and many others.

Though these remarkable songwriters were purveyors of what we think of today as the Broadway sound, the documentary demonstrates how there were echoes of Jewish strains in many of the works. From “Yiddishkeit” (all things Jewish) on the stages of the Lower East Side at the turn of the century to a wide range of shows including “Porgy and Bess,” “West Side Story” and “Cabaret,” the film explores how Jewish music and ethos informs many of America’s favorite musicals.

Dynamic footage includes performances by stars such as David Hyde Pierce (“Spamalot”), Matthew Broderick and Kelli O’Hara (“Nice Work if You Can Get It”), Zero Mostel (“Fiddler on the Roof”), Betty Comden and Adolph Green (“On the Town”), Nathan Lane (“The Producers”), Al Jolson (“Sinbad”), Fanny Brice (“The Great Ziegfeld”), Barbra Streisand (“Funny Girl”), Joel Grey (“Cabaret”), Dick Van Dyke (“Bye Bye Birdie”), Danny Kaye (“Lady in the Dark”), Ethel Merman (“Gypsy”), and Kristin Chenoweth and Idina Menzel (“Wicked”).

The film is the first of its kind to examine the phenomenon that, over the 50-year period of its development, the songs of the Broadway musical were created almost exclusively by Jewish Americans. These are the popular songs that our nation took to war, sang to their children at bedtime, and whistled while waiting for the bus; taken in total they comprise the vast majority of what is now commonly referred to as “The American Songbook.”

As historian Phil Furia cites as just one vivid example, Irving Berlin had so assimilated that he went on to “write the most popular Christmas song, ‘White Christmas’ ... and the most popular Easter song, ‘Easter Parade.’ ”

How do you transform a dreary January into a month of light and laughter? Find someone who’s very funny and put that person on stage. The Jewish Community Center is doing just that, presenting Moshe Waldoks, rabbi, standup comedian and co-editor of the “Big Book of Jewish Humor.” Waldoks will present “A Very Funny, Historically Comprehensive and Deeply Moving Overview of Jewish Humor” at 4 p.m. Sunday, Jan. 6, followed by a book signing and sale. The event, taking place in the White Theatre, is free and the community is invited. He will make a second presentation at noon on Monday, Jan. 7.

The child of Holocaust survivors, Waldoks approached comedy through the serious enterprise of studying Eastern European Jewish intellectual history in pursuit of a doctorate from Brandeis University.

“I chose to concentrate on where modern Jewish life came from,” he says. “I once wrote of a mystical Polish Jew who had no sense of humor. That made me look for the other side of the Polish Jewish personality, and I came to humor.”

Waldoks will provide a historical context to Jewish wit and what it reveals about Jews and Judaism. He will be attending the 2 p.m. matinee of the JCC production of “Laughter on the 23rd Floor” in the White Theatre and is expected to make references to the Neil Simon comedy in his presentation. It is not necessary to attend the performance to come to the rabbi’s presentation. (The play is showing at the White Theatre from Jan. 5–13. Call 913-327-8054 for more information.)

As a self described “advocate of joy,” Waldoks is also passionate about providing accessible gateways into Judaism and deepening the experience of Jewish prayer. In 2005, he founded Nishmat Hayyim, the Jewish Meditation Collaboration of New England. He will draw on his personal experiences and the wisdom of this organization to present a free presentation at noon Monday, Jan. 7, “Discovering the Divine Within Us: Redefining Prayer.” This presentation, taking place in the Multi-Activity Room of the Campus, is also free and open to the public. Those attending may bring lunch.

Waldoks combines intellectual rigor, an infectious happiness, and an experimental style to his role as the spiritual leader of Temple Beth Zion in Brookline, Mass. Known affectionately as “Reb Moshe,” he has grown the congregation from a few dozen adults into a diverse and vibrant community of more than 750 individuals and families.

In addition to meeting the needs of congregants, teaching and lecturing throughout the country, Waldoks has a long history of building bridges between faiths and cultures, what he calls “people-building relationships.” Highlights include a historic Jewish-Catholic Pilgrimage to Israel and Rome in the fall of 1999 during which he initiated a discussion about anti-Semitic teachings of the pre-Vatican II Polish church. In addition, he participated in the first Jewish-Tibetan Buddhist encounter with the Dalai Lama, a journey described by Rodger Kamenetz in his best-selling book, “The Jew in the Lotus: a Poet’s Rediscovery of Jewish Identity in Buddhist India.” Waldoks remains active in promoting Jewish-Muslim Relations in Boston and has initiated and supported Temple Beth Zion’s affiliation with the Greater Boston Interfaith Organization.

Both events are free and open to the community. For more information contact Jill Maidhof at or 913-327-8077.

The Jewish Community Center presents the Neil Simon comedy “Laughter on the 23rd Floor,” beginning Saturday, Jan. 5, in the White Theatre. Performances are Jan. 5, 10 and 12 at 7:30 p.m. and Jan. 6 and 13 at 2 p.m.

This production features the talents of seven local actors under the direction of Mark Swezey.

Krista Blackwood, the JCC’s director of cultural arts, said Simon got his first big break back in the early 1950s as a staff writer on Sid Caesar’s fabled television series, “Your Show of Shows.” “Laughter” is a fictionalized look at the backstage chaos that went into producing that show, one of the landmarks of television’s golden age.

The story surrounds the fictitious Max Prince, star of his own popular comedy-variety series. The show is a hit on the East Coast, but network executives insist that it’s too sophisticated for the Midwest. Prince is pushed to dumb down the show, and comedy ensues as he struggles to meet the demands of too many masters.

Prince uses his writing team as a line of defense, hurling humorous invectives at each other and anyone else within earshot while writing the show.

Blackwood said the show was created in historical context.

“It’s 1953, only eight years after the slaughter of World War II and right in the middle of the witch hunt that was Senator Joseph McCarthy’s Red Scare. The politics of the time presented both context and challenge to the writers, Simon’s surrogates for the ‘Your Show of Shows’ writing team; Lucas (Simon), Ira (Mel Brooks), Kenny (Larry Gelbart), Val (Mel Tolkin), Carol (Selma Diamond), Milt (Carl Reiner), and Brian (Michael Stewart),” Blackwood said.

“Meanwhile, the Sid Caesar-inspired Max Prince tries to stall network honchos who want to trim his budget, shorten his running time, and change his style of humor, deemed too urban and Jewish for suburban America. Angst burbles between the laughs, but the closest thing to a true joke about Senator McCarthy is Milt’s description of him as ‘a United States senator who giggles like Porky the Pig,’ ” she said.

The JCC is offering two special learning opportunities in connection with “Laughter on the 23rd Floor” through its Jewish Life and Learning programs. Rabbi Moshe Waldoks, a storyteller, community activist and stand-up comedian, will present an overview of Jewish humor following the Sunday, Jan. 6, matinee (about 4 p.m.).

On Monday, Jan. 7, the rabbi will give a free noon-hour presentation in the Multi-Activity Room at the Jewish Campus; his talk is entitled, “Discovery the Divine Within Us: Redefining Prayer.”

“Laughter on the 23rd Floor” is rated PG-13 for adult language and situations. Tickets for this production are $14 for members, $20 for (general public) and $10 for students (college and under). Tickets may be purchased by contacting the box office, open from 3-6 p.m. Monday through Friday at 913-327-8054; or you may purchase tickets online by visiting the JCC web site at www.jcckc.org/boxoffice.

Rabbi Irving “Yitz” Greenberg, one of the American Jewish community’s foremost thinkers and leaders, will be here the weekend of Jan. 4-6 as the featured speaker of the Caviar Family Jewish Scholar in Residence Series at Kehilath Israel Synagogue. The weekend’s events are being co-sponsored by the Jewish Community Center and the Jewish Federation of Greater Kansas City.

Rabbi Greenberg’s topics of discussion on Friday night and Saturday at K.I. will also pertain to the theme The Jewish Vision of a Perfect World. He will speak about the “The Challenges of a Changing Jewish World” at a Jewish Federation leadership seminar on Sunday. In a recent telephone interview, Rabbi Greenberg pointed out that both the Jewish vision of a perfect world and the challenges of a changing Jewish world are related.

He said the Jewish vision of a perfect world seems like a big topic, but the heart of it is fairly simple. As part of the explanation, he said most people think of Judaism’s impact on civilization as the recognition of one God. He would like to suggest Judaism has made another important impact.

“That’s the vision not just that there is a God who created the world, but the Jewish concept that it is God’s intention that this world be made perfect,” said the Orthodox ordained rabbi and scholar who earned a doctorate degree from Harvard.

Rabbi Greenberg explained that the image of a perfect world is often a Jewish messianic vision.

“What’s the definition of perfect? It really means a world filled with life, especially human life, which is the highest form of life. It’s God-like and according to the Bible, human beings are made in the image of God,” he said.

Rabbi Greenberg is currently the president of Jewish Life Network/Steinhardt Foundation. From 1974 through 1997, he served as founding President of CLAL — The National Jewish Center for Learning and Leadership, a pioneering institution in the development of adult and leadership education in the Jewish community and the leading organization in intra-Jewish dialogue and the work of Jewish unity. Before CLAL was founded, he served as rabbi of the Riverdale Jewish Center, as associate professor of history at Yeshiva University, and as founder, chairman and professor in the Department of Jewish Studies of City College of the City University of New York. He has also written several books.

To achieve a perfect world Rabbi Greenberg believes society should be structured so that the full dignity of human life should be upheld. Yet it hasn’t been that way for most people throughout much of history.

“You can’t fight city hall. You accept what’s out there as a given and for most people that is poverty and hunger and sickness, etcetera, etcetera,” he said.

But, he continued, that’s not really the Jewish vision.

“This God has made a covenant or a partnership with all humans. Jews are just one community but we would try to be role models or light unto nations. Therefore the Jewish vision is called tikkun olam, perfecting the world by a partnership between God and humanity and between the generations where each generation tries to improve the world both collectively and individually or at least tries to live your life that way,” Rabbi Greenberg said.

When he mentions tikkun olam, he stressed that the phrase, and that way of life, does not simply mean social justice.

“Half jokingly a lot of Conservative or traditional Jews complain that this is the left-wing of the Democratic party made into a sacred scripture, but it’s not,” he said.

Rabbi Greenberg explained that tikkun olam should be understood very broadly and it does involve social justice.

“It does involve taking care of the weak and the poor because they are also an image of God and they have the same dignity and equality as everyone else. But it also involves all acts that build the world to sustain life. So for example if someone creates a business or a factory that pays living wages that creates products … that upgrade the world … or develops medicines that cure people, that’s also tikkun olam,” he said.

“It shouldn’t be understood just as a left or a political position. I think it cuts across all these lines and that’s part of its greatness. It says whatever you want to do, whatever area of life you choose, you can live your life in a certain way that makes it part of tikkun olam.”

Todd Stettner, executive vice president and CEO of the Jewish Federation, noted that Rabbi Greenberg hasn’t made a presentation in Kansas City in more than a decade.

“Many of us who are now in leadership positions both lay and professional came into our positions listening to Yitz and hearing what he had to say about all sorts of issues impacting the Jewish community. He is certainly a major influence and I can’t say enough about his intellect. He’s an amazing man. He’s an Orthodox rabbi but he has flexibility and openness to all sides. He can really captivate an audience in a speech in a way not many people can,” Stettner said.

“You kind of hang on every word, he is just so smart,” he continued.

In Rabbi Greenberg’s association with the Jewish Life Network/Steinhardt Foundation, he has helped created many initiatives to enrich the inner life — religious, cultural and institutional — of American Jewry. He played a founder’s role in the creation of Birthright Israel, which gives the gift of a 10-day educational first trip to Israel to Jews ages 18 to 26 years old. When he discusses ways to draw young leaders into taking active roles in the Jewish community, he believes some of the things that attract young adults to Birthright and keep them connected to the Jewish community pertain here as well.

One of the things Jewish communities need to do, he said, is to make total Jewish environment experiences available, “so that you really experience what it means to live in a Jewish environment.” For adults it could be a simple retreat.

“It could be not just for a weekend. It could be a week. I think every Jewish family should be given a gift like we give for Birthright. You have a week or three days of living in a total Jewish community … so that from womb to tomb there is a set of experiences where Judaism is not just words or some obligation but it’s really living a very, very vital experience,” he said.

Now that Birthright has been in existence for 10 years, he said research shows that the trip doesn’t just give the participants a stronger connection to Israel, “which it does, but it gives them a stronger desire to be Jewish.” “They have lower intermarriage rates; they have higher participation rates in the community. Why is that? Because for the first time in their lives being Jewish is not something that their parents just talked about … it was a very exciting living experience,” he said.

For the Jewish community to succeed, and appeal to young Jews, Rabbi Greenberg said it must be open and friendly.

“Welcome people as they walk in the door at synagogue,” he suggested. “So you’ll know when you come to a Jewish activity you will be welcome, you will be noticed, you will be connected. There’s a lot going on that is exciting and enriching.”

Rabbi Irving Greenberg here Jan. 4-6

The theme of the Caviar Family Jewish Scholar in Residence Series at Kehilath Israel Synagogue featuring Rabbi Irving “Yitz” Greenberg is The Jewish Vision of a Perfect World.

The event Friday night begins at 5 p.m. with services at K.I. The rabbi will speak at 6 p.m., “Tikkun Olam & Tzelim Elokim: Repairing the World and Rediscovering the Divine Spark in Humanity.”

The rabbi will speak at approximately 10:30 a.m. Shabbat morning Jan. 6 (services begin at 9 a.m.). The topic will be “Covenant & Redemption.” Shabbat afternoon worship begins at 4:30 p.m., Rabbi Greenberg will discuss “The 12 Steps of Covenant for Healing the World” at approximately 5 p.m.

In honor of Rabbi Greenberg, all worship services will include a mechitzah.

On Sunday morning Jan. 6, Rabbi Greenberg will be the featured speaker at the Jewish Federation’s “Powering Our Future: The Challenges of a Changing Jewish World” leadership seminar from 10:30 a.m. to noon at the Jewish Community Campus. The community is welcome; however reservations are required. Call 913-327-8100 to RSVP.

Every year on Dec. 24 about 200 young Jewish people in their 20s, 30s and 40s gather at a hot nightspot in the city to renew friendships and have an evening of good cheer. It’s not a singles event — couples and singles regularly attend — yet every now and then the relationship angels manage to bring two people together. That’s exactly what happened with Leah Karchin and Justin Unell at Bagel Bash 2009.

Karchin was determined she wasn’t going to miss Bagel Bash that year. A year earlier she had moved to the area as a student at the University of Kansas’ Edwards Campus in Overland Park working toward a master’s degree in special education with an emphasis in autism. When she returned from a winter break visit with her family in Grosse Pointe, Mich., she heard about the great party she had missed on Dec. 24.

“People just raved about it,” Karchin said.

During the previous year she had met many of these people at other events sponsored for young adults by the Jewish Federation of Greater Kansas City. She loved attending these events.

“There was no Jewish population where I was from and I thought it was a great way to make friends,” she said in a recent interview.

By the time the party rolled around the next year, Karchin made plans to attend.

“I told my mom I still wanted to come home and visit, but I wanted to come a little later so I could go to Bagel Bash,” she said.

Karchin, who earned that master’s degree she moved to town for, is now the instructor in Blue Valley’s Center for Advanced Professional Studies Interaction design program (a field that combines creativity with technology, marketing and advertising). She looked forward to the evening as simply a girls’ night out with friends. It really wasn’t a top priority for her to scope out the available Jewish men.

However just the opposite was true for Unell. He had been to Bagel Bash before and enjoyed seeing old and new friends there. But now he was at a time in his life when he was ready, and even hoping, to meet a nice Jewish woman. On this night he noticed Karchin.

“This guy just walked up to me,” said the 29-year-old Karchin. “He was very brave.”

“He works in TV and I really didn’t know anything about TV, but we talked about it for a while. Then he asked for my phone number. Guys don’t do that anymore. I wasn’t sure if he was serious, but I said sure and gave it to him because he was really nice.”

Fast forward four years to today and the couple is making plans to attend yet another Bagel Bash. Now engaged, they plan to marry in 2013. Karchin said she also has a great story to tell people.

“Jewish people go out for Chinese food and see a movie on Christmas Eve, but it’s a whole different story for non-Jewish people. So when I tell people I met Justin at a party on Christmas Eve, it sounds magical to them,” Karchin said.

For those who like romantic stories, this story is indeed magical. Unell, 32, grew up in Kansas City and works as a planning editor for 41 Action News. He liked Karchin and called her the very next day after meeting her. Since Karchin was out of town, it took another week or so before they actually got together.

After speaking with Karchin at the party and on the phone, he discovered she had been a competitive figure skater who was a member of the U.S. National Synchronized Skating Team as well as a member of the synchronized skating team at Michigan State University. So he suggested they go skating at Crown Center.

“I had never figure-skated before. It was something my parents and my sister had done a few times, but I had never been interested before,” Unell said.

Karchin, who is also a skating coach, was running late from practice and worried she would make a bad impression on Unell, but said the date went off without a glitch and, she said, was really fun.

“I do remember holding hands while we were skating. I thought it was romantic at the time but it could have been that he needed a little skating help. But he’s a lot better at skating that I am at golf,” said Karchin, referring to one of Unell’s favorite hobbies.

The date continued at Fritz’s restaurant in Crown Center, where they had burgers and shakes delivered by the restaurant’s overhead train system.

“He paid, something guys don’t do much anymore either. I had fun and definitely thought he was impressive,” she said.

She thought it was the perfect date. He wasn’t so sure because the date was over by 8 p.m. Unell later learned Karchin was simply exhausted after a long day of coaching.

As Karchin explains, the rest is history. But becoming a couple didn’t happen overnight and took some planning. For example, they had completely opposite schedules. She worked from 7 a.m. to 3 p.m. daily plus her coaching duties. He generally worked 2 to 11 p.m. at the TV station.

Not one to rush things Unell decided this summer, after dating for three and a half years, that it was time to propose. Just as he did when he took Karchin skating that first time, he stepped outside of his comfort zone to do it.

“We took a trip to the U.S. Virgin Islands, which is wild for me because I’m a lower 48 kind of guy. I got this romantic package where we got a picnic for two on a private beach. Leah was surprised and we had an amazing lunch on a gorgeous day,” he said.

“I got down on one knee and said will you marry me. I had the ring with me,” he said. “She was crying and emotional and said yes. Then of course she couldn’t eat. But we had a few days left on the trip and continued to have a great vacation.”

Because Bagel Bash has special meaning to them, they haven’t missed one since they met. And they plan to keep it on their list of things to do for years to come.

Bagel Bash to be held Dec. 24

Bagel Bash, tagged as the place to meet new people and to reconnect with old friends, takes place at 8 p.m. Monday, Dec. 24, at Gusto Lounge, 504 Westport Road in Kansas City, Mo. The event is for Jewish adults in their 20s, 30s and 40s. No one under 21 will be admitted. For reservations or more information, call Nicole at 913-327-8111.

Members of the Bagel Bash Committee are Aaron Goldman, Greg Herman, Amy King, Dave Suroff and Alan Widman. The event is brought to you by the Jewish Federation of Greater Kansas City in cooperation with B’Not Or Hadassah; Chavarim on the Scene, Kehilath Israel Synagogue; Congregation Beth Israel Abraham & Voliner; Congregation Beth Shalom; Congregation Kol Ami; Friends Next Dor, Congregation Beth Torah; Jewish Community Center; JCRB|AJC; Jewish Federation’s Business & Professionals; Kehillah KC, The Temple, Congregation B’nai Jehudah; New Reform Temple; and Congregation Ohev Sholom.

VISIT COCO KEY WATER RESORT — Once you read this, you won’t be able to get the CoCo Key Water Resort theme song out of your head (at least I couldn’t!). Torah Learning Center has teamed up with CoCo Key Water Resort to offer some winter break discounts. Visit tickets.cocokeykansascity.com and enter code name TLC to receive a buy one get one free offer. There is also a Holiday Bundle package of 10 passes for $10 each (a savings up to $150!). Torah Learning Center will receive a percentage of sales received via this offer (valid until May 31, 2013). CoCo Key is offering extended hours of operation during winter break, from Dec. 21 through Dec. 31. For more information, visit www.cocokeykansascity.com, call Greg Madden at 816-737-4775 or email .

THE LATKE DOUBLE DOWN — Here’s one to file away for next Chanukah. Last week NPR aired a story about a sandwich created by Rob Eshman and Jay Friedman of the Jewish Journal of Greater Los Angeles in 2010. It is patterned after the KFC Double Down: the sandwich that replaced bread with fried chicken. The Latke Double Down replaces the bread with latkes, aka fried potato pancakes. The print journalists used lox as their sandwich filling. The folks at NPR filled theirs with brisket. To get the recipe for the Latke Double Down and the story behind it, visit http://www.jewishjournal.com/foodaism/item/the_double_down_latke_sandwich_video_and_recipe_20101118. To hear the entire NPR story, visit http://www.npr.org/blogs/thesalt/2012/12/10/166878737/sandwich-monday-the-latke-double.

BASKETBALL PLAYER TO WEAR YARMULKE — My friend and loyal reader tipped me off to this story about a Jewish player for Northwestern University who plans to wear a yarmulke during games. In August JTA reported that Aaron Liberman of Los Angeles’ Valley Torah High School was joining the team as a non-scholarship walk-on this season. The 6-foot-10 forward/center, who is already being referred to as the “Jewish Dwight Howard,” spent a gap year after high school studying in Israel while he continued to practice basketball. He’s battling an injury and has not played this season and may be redshirted, meaning he will sit out the year and not lose a year of eligibility. When, or if, he does play, the school plans to provide the 215-pound forward/center with a purple and white yarmulke for home games and purple and black one for the road. Liberman also plans to wear tzitzit, a knotted fringe or tassel worn on the corners of garments, underneath his jersey, a Northwestern spokesperson confirmed.

Many of us have stuffed ourselves during the past several days on latkes and brisket and other delicacies as we celebrated Chanukah. Some of us in the Jewish community are not fortunate enough to feel full during this holiday, or any other day.

While the plight of the hungry has gotten a lot of press lately, it’s never enough. So several organizations — including the Jewish Council for Public Affairs, MAZON: A Jewish Response to Hunger and a variety of rabbinical and Jewish social justice organizations — organized the Jewish Community Food Stamp Challenge. The project asked participants to live for one week on the average food stamp allotment of $31.50 per person as a way to understand how difficult it is to be hungry and to demonstrate the Jewish community’s commitment to ending hunger.

Several people in the local Jewish community — including Rabbi Alexandria Shuval-Weiner of The Temple, Congregation B’nai Jehudah, Congregation Beth Torah’s Rabbi Mark Levin, JFS Executive Director Don Goldman and Rabbi Debbie Stiel of Temple Beth Sholom in Topeka — took the challenge. By doing so they put themselves on a welfare diet, seeing what it’s like to taste just a little bit of the life so many others have no choice but to lead.

The cold, hard facts

Statistics provided by JCPA note that one in six American households is struggling against hunger. Current economic turmoil and threats of severe cuts to government programs have left America’s hungry — already at historically high numbers — with little hope of relief. Recent studies by a number of agencies and organizations highlight this disturbing trend: between 2007 and 2009, the number of households struggling with hunger increased more than 33 percent with nearly one in four U.S. households with children unable to afford enough food. And the U.S. Census Bureau reported that the U.S. poverty rate rose to 15.1 percent in 2010, with one out of every six Americans, or 46.2 million, living in poverty.

Not surprisingly, with so many more in need, enrollment in federal food and nutrition programs is dramatically on the rise. In April 2012, SNAP (Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program, formerly known as food stamps) participation rose to a record level of more than 46.2 million Americans — an increase of more than 1.5 million people compared with just one year before. But proposed cuts mean millions could be left without help.

The challenge

This is the second time that Rabbi Shuval-Weiner has chosen to eat for a week on $4.50 per day, or $1.50 per meal. That’s the average amount a SNAP participant received in 2010. This year she took the challenge in September, right before the High Holidays.

Rabbi Shuval-Weiner regularly preaches and advocates about hunger issues. But she felt it was important to actually make that sacrifice herself.

“To actually have to make that struggle I feel is a really important marker because people struggle with this every single day of their lives. For me to put myself back in that place, it was a contemplative act of re-engagement with something I feel very powerful about, which is anti-hunger advocacy,” she said.

Rabbi Levin discussed his plan to participate in the Food Stamp Challenge in a High Holiday sermon and took the challenge just before Thanksgiving. He said he had long wondered what it was like to be food insecure, the new phrase, which refers to people who have limited or uncertain access to adequate food. But until the challenge was laid, Rabbi Levin really didn’t know the best way to experience food insecurity.

By doing this, Rabbi Levin also wanted to show his support for the farm bill, which as of this writing was still hung up in Congress. The farm bill is a comprehensive piece of legislation, renewed approximately every five years, that covers a lot of issues including nutrition, food stamps and crop subsidies.

“I thought this is a very good idea to get people to sign on by saying they are willing to give up something. It’s not just a signature, it’s a commitment,” Rabbi Levin said, echoing JCPA’s statement that the Food Stamp Challenge sends “a strong message to our public officials that we need to support SNAP (food stamps) and help keep millions from hunger and poverty.”

The budget

Rabbi Shuval-Weiner and JFS’ Goldman, both vegetarians, learned quickly that it’s very hard to buy fresh fruits and vegetables on such a small budget.

“It’s like living in black and grey all the time when you have so little choice,” Rabbi Shuval-Weiner said. “For myself, I found myself eating a lot of starchy stuff. I actually gained weight. There’s only so much rice and potatoes and pasta one can eat.”

Rabbi Levin is not a vegetarian but chooses to eat little meat. By shopping smart that week he purchased what he characterized as a “filling cereal,” as well as chicken and vegetables which he made into a large pot of soup. If he ate lunch at all, it was a small piece of fruit.

“When I was buying groceries for that week I actually told the checkout guy about it. He looked at what I bought and said people who live on food stamps don’t buy fresh vegetables. I actually lived, I think, somewhat better in some respects than most people,” Rabbi Levin said.

For Goldman, the challenge highlighted how much he personally takes his food options for granted, noting that he often pays little attention to the cost of his food choices.

“But shopping for the challenge, I went off to Aldi with $22 in hand — my budget for five days, trying to figure out how to make this work. I got some bananas and splurged on mushrooms but couldn’t make any other fruit or vegetables work. I got some cheap cereal, pasta, peanut butter and bread and quickly used up my budget,” Goldman said.

He was never hungry during the week, but admits to being unsatisfied and a bit grumpy.

“I don’t think I ended up with a healthy or balanced diet. I could have planned better and probably made a healthier diet work, but that would have taken lots of planning and shopping at different stores, something most people on food stamps aren’t able to do,” Goldman said.

Rabbi Levin often talks to people when he’s out and about and he’s often seen how people struggle to make ends meet, with little time to themselves, let alone time to shop at many different places. He points to a recent conversation he had with a cashier at the market he frequents.

“I said it’s been a long day, I’ve been working for 12 hours and I’m going home,” he said. “This person said she started at 7 a.m., too, and was still working. You can’t eat right if you do that and it’s expensive,” Rabbi Levin said.

He knows of at least one member of Beth Torah who is food insecure, and one way the budget gets stretched is by preparing as much as food as possible and not buying convenience food.

“She makes beans in a crock pot. Most of us buy them already made before we use them. And certainly sweets are not in the budget at all,” he said.

More than nutrition

Rabbi Shuval-Weiner pointed out that food is not just about sustenance.

“It is what nurtures our hearts and our minds and our souls. In many ways it brings enjoyment to life. It brings a sense of connection to one another,” she said.

She said it is simply not possible on that little amount of money for people to put quality food with flavor on the table. While the Jewish community is “exceedingly generous” when it comes to food drives, she hopes people will be able to put more thought into what they donate to our local pantries.

“As we’re stocking our own food bank, we need to consider what the things are that we like to eat in our own homes,” she said.

She suggests people become more creative when they choose their food donations.

“What would you take over to your best friend if you were preparing a meal for them?” Rabbi Shuval-Weiner asked.

She would also like the JFS Food Pantry to become “a vibrant place where there’s fresh food and there’s high quality food, not just staples.” Individuals are not able to donate fresh foods to JFS just yet, (some is available through corporate donations and the Mitzvah Garden) but JFS’s Goldman said there are other things people can donate.

“They can buy more interesting items. For example, we see a great demand so far for canned salmon,” he said. “One woman was so excited to find a can of salmon and was thinking how she could stretch this to two meals for her family.”

When the challenge was over for Goldman, he was relieved that he could eat what he wanted.

“Real people on food stamps don’t get that kind of quick relief. And in fact, I spent more than my week’s budget at a lunch out with my daughter the next day. That’s something people who are on food stamps or visit our pantry don’t get to do,” he said.